2010年7月25日 星期日

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Children photographyCan explain without statistic of a government China has how many person to be in now live together. To enjoying among them youth for, cohabitational feeling is heaven, for the person that to getting its kill, it is Tartarean however. What only can affirm is, popular the cohabitational phenomenon at the whole world, it is the flimsiest two sexual relationship. Face a reporter, luo Hui of director of seminar of family of marriage of professor of China woman college, China

Can explain without statistic of a government China has how many person to be in now live together. To enjoying among them youth for, cohabitational feeling is heaven, for the person that to getting its kill, it is Tartarean however. What only can affirm is, popular the cohabitational phenomenon at the whole world, it is the flimsiest two sexual relationship. Face a reporter, ground of Luo Huilan call a spade a spade says director of seminar of family of marriage of professor of China woman college, China. If hold the post of it to travel to come in that way like popular music, by small numerous fun change is public interest, can let more people be lost in this kind of relation only.

Live togetherTrendNot reversible

Famous philosopher Luo Su is in " marriage and morality " speak of in one book, had done not have sexual experience to marry to the men and women, arrived to want to move to just saw oneself room that day as customer of a house, in case improper, how should do?

Taking this kind of state of mind just about, maiden the thing that lives together to make a person feel disgusted from turns a lot of youths into a kind of choice before marriage. Many people inspect his to be the battlefield to traditional marriage declare war, professed to experience the advantage that it brings: Mature young person is single live together can know the other side more, the life also becomes more economy; Undergraduate outside school lives together for the sake of resolving sexual demand, seek domestic perception ahead of schedule; From the middleaged person after different, because very careful to remarrying, use so live together come each other intention; is in test country, because admit bridal celebration only, do not care about law to register, the person that so blame marriage lives together also there are plenty of such people; Still have malicious person, already the spouse still lives together with other however, it is only temporarily delighted.

But Luo Jiao awards think: The generalization of cohabitational phenomenon, with idea of whole society marriage become loose have main concern. Be in especially the first batch of singletons female after entering marriageable age gradually, their marital concept is opener, more optional, inspect marriage to be divine bond no longer, do not hope to be concerned to be manacled by marriage, fear to fail the harm that marriage brings, although domestic background is different, but many people move toward finally same a road: Live together before marriage.

From the point of the whole world, the trend of cohabitational phenomenon popularity is not reversible turn, but person of quite a few is not clear to its understanding. Not clear what dividing from them is to try marriage, what is to live together to see one spot.

Can explain without statistic of a government China has how many person to be in now live together. To enjoying among them youth for, cohabitational feeling is heaven, for the person that to getting its kill, it is Tartarean however. What only can affirm is, popular the cohabitational phenomenon at the whole world, it is the flimsiest two sexual relationship. Face a reporter, luo Hui of director of seminar of family of marriage of professor of China woman college, China

Cohabitational relation satisfaction spends difference

In home, cohabitational relation considers to still did not become a system, but go up oneself century since 80 time later period, roger of American new jersey this the university has two professors, d conceives Nuo of Peng of big Wei Bo and Barbara Tehede, to living together the relation had the research that is as long as 10 years.

Luo Jiao is awarded say, their report announces piece, via the marriage that live together and forms, than forms without living together marriage, divorce rate is high 46% . Time lives together to jump over long couple before marriage, think of more easily to divorce, their sexual relationship as much flimsy. And, cohabitational time is longer, both sides general more pursuit paddles his own canoe, loather the obligation that accepts marriage, the possibility that never marries accordingly is larger, the burst rate that the burst rate of cohabitational relation also concerns than marriage is higher.

Cohabitational phenomenon is so common, media should bear due responsibility. Because the work of movie and TV nowadays exaggerated too much,force of divorce phenomenon, family and feeling are betrayed, and the description that lacks dialogue head to grow old together, this meeting lets more youths be fear of marriage, choose to live together thereby.

Can explain without statistic of a government China has how many person to be in now live together. To enjoying among them youth for, cohabitational feeling is heaven, for the person that to getting its kill, it is Tartarean however. What only can affirm is, popular the cohabitational phenomenon at the whole world, it is the flimsiest two sexual relationship. Face a reporter, luo Hui of director of seminar of family of marriage of professor of China woman college, China

Live together with try marriage have substaintial distinction

Live together have a risk, the person that great majority lives together approve of. But a lot of youths still feel: Live together even if try marriage, understood each other likes and dislikes already, saved living expenses again, still learned this how to manage marriage. According to investigation, before most youth thinks to marry, living together is a good idea.

Luo Jiao is awarded emphasize, live together with try marriage having substantially different: Above all, there is marital acceptance completely between the person that live together, disagreement is divided, and try marriage person the common cause that embracing final trend marriage, can endeavor to maintain two people relationship in that way like true husband and wife.

Can explain without statistic of a government China has how many person to be in now live together. To enjoying among them youth for, cohabitational feeling is heaven, for the person that to getting its kill, it is Tartarean however. What only can affirm is, popular the cohabitational phenomenon at the whole world, it is the flimsiest two sexual relationship. Face a reporter, luo Hui of director of seminar of family of marriage of professor of China woman college, China

Next, because do not have the subjective aspiration that pursues marriage, once the person that live together so encounters a problem, instead more added lose touch, cause violent conflict even. Cohabitational associate is right in recent years illegitimate of the child mistreat and ****** , made a kind of special society issue. Home has statistic to show, the violent problem between cohabitational spouse far over family is violent. And try marriage person different, the objective that pursues marriage can let two people concern to have tenacity more.

Additional, the both sides of cohabitational relation values his own independence and individual interest more. Below the appearance of collective life, be two each other independence is individual. And try marriage person have the desire that communicates each other, they meet those who promote two people hard match rate, seek build stabler 2 people world.

Luo Jiao gives rhetorical question: Essential difference is such big, how can you still learn marital experience from inside cohabitational life? Reality tells us, the cohabitational impact of one individual experience is more, easier choice lives together and not be marriage.

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